Breakup is actually a cycle of a relationship. However the question is whether, in the relationship weaves the love between the sexes, should experience breakups? Because I know some couples who are married, with not having breakups. This shows that breakups can be avoided in a relationship of love. However, if the breakup happened, should it be encountered by each individual.
Breakup has left wounds on each of the individual women's Party in particular. Because women are basically creatures of that type to receive, keep or contain the things that affect them both good things and bad. Especially if the love relationship has been built over the years, the pain feels more pain. Like two sheets of paper that are bonded to each other with glue, and then you try to separate the two the paper in any way. Certainly, one of the paper from being damaged even shredded both of these papers. Poignant, sharp pain can be felt simultaneously, so that it can interfere with all aspects of the life of each individual.
Effects of breakups can be seen from these forms of behavior that is generally the case. Like a lazy, interact with other people so that individuals withdraw from environmental friendship aka disappeared from the community. Lazy meal, so that thin body dry. The swollen eyes, because of too many tears. Even make work concentration began to decline. Or worry if met with the former, as it will bring up the pain of heart. How about you? Do you ever feel these things? Or, when you are experiencing these things above?
Personally that is being overwhelmed with grief, of course require new environments. Environment that is able to accept them for what they are, who will hear the complaints of their lamentations, as well as motivate them so that the wheel can continue her life. This is not light work because it requires periodic supervision and mentoring. So it's not just their inner wounds to recover but it can motivate them to grow, by way of share to others who have also experienced a similar thing that is hopelessly in love.
Inner wound recovery because of breakups, the process requires a long time. Obviously influenced by the individual's readiness to let go of the hurt. In fact, the pain experienced by a manifestation of attitudes do not want to accept the fact that there is. So bring up sentences such as the following, remorse. "... Why is this happening to me?" ... why I'm reunited with her? " ... But if the individual is willing to let go of the pain and willing to accept the fact that there are, will speed the recovery of the self. Therefore, it is very unfortunate if breakups solutions is looking for a new girlfriend. Because the solution to its short-term and not permanent. It can even make the increasingly wide inner wounds.
Let go of the pain has the meaning, making peace with yourself and letting go of forgiveness in couples. Make peace with yourself has a notion that is able to accept the bitter reality as part of the life of each individual and design have theistic life peace and good through such events. If it is above being able to responded well, then in the life to come, if each individual would like to build a relationship of love with other people then the love relationship can be intertwined with healthy and getting cooked. Even if they are given the opportunity to meet each other again, they can build a relationship of friendship that is healthier than ever.
